Mary Mainiero Margenot - An Enterprising Woman
By Mary Jacobson, OHP Blog Editor
Mary
Mainiero Margenot had dreams. She arrived in this country by ship with her
mother from Castelfranco in Benevento, Italy, at the age of four in 1900. “When
we came to Ellis Island, I remember the water and the bench I slept on. It
seemed the water was coming towards me. I remember that; it always comes in
like a dream.” Mary was interviewed by Oral History Project volunteer Eileen
Harrington in 1984.
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Mary Margenot at 82. Photo lent by the Margenot family. |
Mary’s father,
a shoemaker, was already living on Mulberry Street in Manhattan with his aunt
and uncle, awaiting the arrival of his wife and daughter. By the time Mary was ten,
her family moved to Greenwich, to “a little place on the corner of Railroad and
Davis Avenue, a little place where someone could be a shoemaker…they used to also
sell working clothes, working shoes, and things of that sort.” In the decades
that followed, the Mainieros (the name later changed to Manero) steadily
expanded their business and real estate holdings. Soon they had two stores; the
second “was like a meat market and a grocery store, and my uncle was the
butcher.” They would cater to the large yachts in the harbor. Her dad subsequently
found work at the lumber mill owned by the Maher Brothers on Steamboat Road,
cutting, sizing, and stripping lumber.
Mary was
the oldest child in the family. “My mother and father had seven children
besides me. I was the family from ‘the other side.’” As the eldest, although
only a young student at Havemeyer School, Mary had the most responsibilities.
Her mother could not read or write. “I taught her to write her name, and I
taught her the numbers, like one, two, three. … She never learned the English
language. She could understand what you said, but she would never talk.” After
school, Mary would help her mother with chores and work in the store.
One of
Mary’s dreams was to become a teacher. Math was her favorite subject. “It came
naturally to me… I wanted to be a teacher, so I took…French, Latin, and history…but
my people didn’t have the money to send me to school. They had a bunch of kids
and no money.” After two years at Greenwich High School, Mary left school. “I
was about sixteen, and my mother was still having babies. I could see they
needed help, and I could see that I wasn’t doing too well in school… I could
hardly hear the teacher.” The reality was that Mary had an untreated perforated
eardrum, causing deafness in one ear, contributing to her unsatisfactory
performance in school. “I said to myself, ‘If you can’t hear, you certainly
can’t teach.’”
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Mary Mainiero Margenot wedding photo. Photo lent by Margenot family. |
As a young
woman, Mary chafed at the strict rules her parents imposed on her. “The Italian
families years ago used to raise their children that way… They used to watch me
like a hawk. I had no friends. I never had a boyfriend. I never had anybody
other than what I could see in the store.” Life changed for Mary when John
Margenot started to come to the store with some regularity. “My mother used to
say, ‘Why does he hang around here?’ So, I used to say, ‘He’ll come over and
talk to me.” In John, Mary saw an older man of twenty-five with a future to
share. “He was a man with some vision, and he was a very hard-working man. He
was very intelligent… He brought himself up by his own bootstraps.”
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John Margenot wedding photo. Photo lent by Margenot family. |
At the
time, he also had a steady job with Bridgeport Boiler Works. “He didn’t have a
home of his own; he was making good money, and he wanted a home of his own.” Mary
was eighteen and a half years old when she and John married in 1915. “I told my
father I wanted to marry him and my father said no. He said, ‘You have a lot of
young children over here. You ought to help us bring them up.’ I said, ‘You had
them. I didn’t have them…’ They were never happy with John, but I lived with
him for fifty-nine years.”
For a
while, Mary and John lived in Bridgeport and then in Jersey City, where John
worked at a shipyard. They bought a small house there but “it was very low
land. I got malaria from it.” Within a few years, they returned to Greenwich permanently,
purchasing “a little old house right where the 537 Steamboat Road building is
now” (opposite the present location of the Delamar Greenwich Harbor hotel). “We
had no money, but we had four thousand dollars in Liberty Bonds… We borrowed
the four thousand dollars on the Liberty Bonds, and that way we bought the
house.” Eventually, they renovated the house into a three-family dwelling so
they could have a steady income from renters.
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House on Steamboat Road. Photo lent by the Margenot family. |
With their
innate business sense and readiness to expand their holdings, Mary and John eventually
bought the adjoining lot with $1000 of borrowed money. They bargained with an
excavator to remove the dirt and stone for no cost and sell it to the town to
help create Grass Island. In time, with more borrowed money and hard labor, “We
built Connecticut Iron Works on that property… My husband was very handy with
trucks and cars—blacksmith work of any kind, sharpening tools.” Maher Brothers
Corporation, which supplied much of the material used in the development of
Greenwich, was located across the street, and gave them quite a bit of business.
To make extra money, “We used to store trucks in the empty shop at night. In
the morning they would drive out and we’d use it as a shop.”
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Original Connecticut Ironworks in the early 1940s. Photo lent by Margenot family. |
At the end of WWII, John got into the
house-building business. “He used to build on his own, buy a piece of land and
build on it, about a house a year.” Mary and John forged a business partnership.
Mary enrolled in a business course in Stamford so she could help with their
business. She remained its bookkeeper for the next fifty-six years. “Last month
(at age 87), I handled ninety thousand dollars’ worth of billing… I still love
it. To me, it’s a hobby; it’s not work.” Together they raised four children—Carl,
Albert, John, and Vera. Their son John served on the Greenwich Board of
Selectmen for fourteen years, including a decade as first selectman from 1985
to 1995.
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Mary and John Margenot at 50th wedding anniversary. Photo lent by the Margenot family. |
Looking
back on her life, Mary observed, “I don’t feel as if a person should be
suppressed. What you want to do, what you feel that you can do, do it, whether
you’re old, young, or whatever you are, man or woman… That’s always been me. Do
it.”
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John and Mary in their Studebaker. Photo lent from Margenot family. |
The interview “An Enterprising Woman” may be read in its entirety at the main library. It is also available for purchase by contacting the OHP office. The OHP is sponsored by the Friends of Greenwich Library. Visit the website at glohistory.org. Our narrator’s recollections are personal and have not been subjected to factual scrutiny. Mary Jacobson serves as blog editor.